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I understand every guy needs hobbies and that’s great but these guys always mention that they want a woman who shares their interests and I don’t like any of those things, in fact, I can’t do most of them because of health issues and lack of any athletic ability.I know I could just search for guys who are more low-key and into things I’m into but when these sporty/outdoorsy guys message me, should I ignore them?The people who insist that others share their hobbies eliminate most of the population, but worse, they don’t realize the damage they do to their patient partners. Journal even wrote about this years ago in an article called “The Plight of the Training Widow,” a term coined to describe the woman whose alpha husband works hard and plays hard, waking up at 5am and going to sleep at pm, leaving her effectively widowed.She may have a ring on her finger and a roof over her head.And last thing you want to be is the couple that leads separate lives, with hobbies that take the place of conversation and connection.Long story short, Mandy, if a guy demands you take up four-wheeling to be with him, dump him.What she doesn’t have is much quality time with her partner.So yes, Mandy, I hijacked your question to say something I’ve wanted to say for 14 years.
Well I firmly believed this for a while but now I’m gonna have to say that’s not always the case.Through the years I, like most of you, I’m sure, have found myself in those infamous and utterly maddening situations.You meet, you hit it off, you get really excited because you’ve finally found a great guy, and after that…silence.But just because he likes four-wheeling doesn’t mean you ignore him; rather it means you get to determine over time if you are content with the effort he’s putting into the relationship.If he rides every day after work and all weekend at the expense of your relationship, you know what to do.
Being a marathoner or an animal activist may be the most profound and meaningful experience on earth for those who share your passion, yet they’re kind of rough on the 99% who don’t.