How to keep a girl you are dating interested
This will help remind you that you need to get her out on a date, not waste time becoming her texting buddy.
The High-Status Filter also helps when you’re feeling anxious and waiting for her to reply to your messages and she’s taking longer than you want. But would you waste gas, waste time, and put stress on the engine?
Don’t think of texting as a way of exchanging data, think of it as a way of giving her feelings (which she then associates with you).
Principle #3 – Metal is easier to bend when it’s red hot – Let’s say you want to bend a metal pipe.
During that time, you’re competing with all her social media notifications, friends, family, and other guys who are interested in dating her as well. just like you do, so how are you going to stand out in that sea of noise? Most women don’t answer the phone these days, and prefer to communicate by text (at least until they get to know you better). It’s a requirement if you want to date an attractive woman.
Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.
but if you start making these mistakes and she loses interest (and stops replying), then it was all for nothing.
The first thing to learn here is how to take your foot “off the brakes” regarding texting. Mistake #1 – Trying to build attraction over text – One of the most important things to remember is that it’s better to build attraction in person when you’re face to face, not over text.
Instead, just put a little thought into what you want to send her, and you’ll be much more likely to stand out and win her attention. There’s no reason to initiate some long, drawn out “get to know you over text” conversation. First, I reminded her of what we connected over when we first met (ethnic food).
Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.
You didn’t know how to keep her interested in you over text long enough to get her out on a date. texting is like a big mystery for a lot of us guys. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it’s like having a superpower…
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.
I’ve seen lots of guys use text to try and tell stories, be funny or sarcastic, asking her deep questions, etc.