Normal dating behavior
We all know to avoid people that appear insane or abusive and not select them as a dating partner.However, some individuals are better at hiding their personality and behavior abnormalities.*The article, Are You Dating A Loser was written by Joseph M. So, read on, and by the end of the article hopefully you will have gained some insight and will able to answer the question that he poses in his title. It is very informative and discusses some of the warning signs of emotional and physical abuse to look for within dating relationships.In an effort to provide some warning about these very damaging individuals, this paper will outline a type of individual commonly found in the dating scene, a male or female labeled “The Loser”.
There are a variety of “bad choices” that may be encountered each week – most of which are easily to identify and avoid.
One of the things that might attract you to “The Loser” is how quickly he or she says “I Love You” or wants to marry or commit to you.
Typically, in less than a few weeks of dating you’ll hear that you’re the love of their life, they want to be with you forever, and they want to marry you.
It’s true that we can become infatuated with others quickly – but not make such unrealistic promises and have the future planned after three dates.
The rapid warm-up is always a sign of shallow emotions which later cause “The Loser” to detach from you as quickly as they committed. If your boyfriend or girlfriend blows up and does dangerous things, like driving too fast because they’re mad, breaking/throwing things, getting into fights, or threatening others – that temper will soon be turned in your direction.
In one sense, they have always lived with this personality and behavior, often something they probably learned from their relatives/family.